sometimes i am thinking whether to spend more time being with people or alone

socializing with different people should be fine

met a couple of qiong’s friend tonight,

they are nice

 

Qiong mentioned a book do what you are. it’s too controversial

I don’t care that much…

 

Get good at finding the true barriers to getting what you want
 

it’s a topic like i just thought of

i always thought i would be too busy to invite ppl for dinner at home

but actually i am not that busy 

i always got tired b/c i just pushed myself into the wrong way

pressurized but not productive

 

theory 

In style上有一篇文章，讲说如何准备整理春天的衣服。我觉得很有启发~第一步要先选出自己最最最喜欢的几件，而不是从basics开始build up。你最喜欢的才是你个人风格的体现。在选出最喜欢的以后，第二步就是选basics啦，这个，我发现对basics的认知还是有个人差异的，对我来说 就是很多很多的T,tanks，浅色的牛仔裤，中裤，基本的齐膝裙，布裤子，和开衫。然后开始mix match,配鞋子，配包，配首饰，就差不多了。